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What are the top things to do slowly working towards full-time and hormones?
Right now I live with my parents in a country where I am super closeted. So for me it's firstly moving out and then traveling to live abroad.
But what are things to take into consideration? I try to stay as smooth as I can, and I am growing out my hair though I don't know if I won't get paranoid about it. I wear feminine underwear as much as I can. What are skills and things I should try out or work towards?

Pic related, mamaries which I really wish to have one day ;)
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I'm sorry I know very little about immigration here :/

Though I must say people are sometimes assholes here but generally more tolerant/accepting on trans and gender non-conforming people than countries where it's dangerous to simply exist.


Damn sorry for double post. I blame the phone ^_^


kill your cock with a device named smth like cock shock from extreme restraints. put it on put a remote vibrating bullet in your ass. start a porn vid and with every sight of cock, run the bullet. and with every sight of pussy, shock your cock. thats extreme forced gay


What does killing your cock or going extreme on forced gay have anything to do with transitioning? Like, what the hell xD


some good news, if you are still following this thread...

Get a student Visa to come to the United States. Get started transitioning here. Then apply for sanctuary to stay because going back to your country of origin would put you in danger.

You will have to find a school program for your student visa, and you will want a work permit so you can earn money while going to school. Also make an effort to find some support, in case you need references, or other kinds of help as you start your new life.

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Hi there. I know this board has died down quite a bit over the years but I wanted to share this. I used to be on self medicated HRT and I stopped because I was convinced that I would regret it or that I would outgrow this kink.

It's just the opposite. Rather than outgrow it, it has only
Become more intense and I don't regret taking hormones but I actually regret stopping them. I'm now 23 years old and I can feel the window closing on me and my chance to ever be passable. What I want you to take from this is that if you are on the fence or are on HRT and thinking about stopping, you alone know how much you want to be a sexy girl. The only way that will happen is with hormones, surgery and hard work. The sooner you start the better the final result.


How far were you, and how were your results? I also wanted to self medicate with herbals for a while but got super scared and never took more than the 3 first pills. I am 22 now but I know I'm not really ready to go forward, I am scared about most of this. My face will need facial feminization surgery if I wanna pass at all. I think I should go on pueraria at least since I can stop without many reprecussions if I get scared again, but if I won't atleast I'll have a little bit of progress.


If the only reason you want to take actual HRT is because you want to pass, then better off having stopped.

If you really want to transitions with all the consequences and if you're sure it will make you happy, 23 is still very young and you got time on your side to change how you look.


Not really ma nigga unless you be planning on choppin' ouff half yo f8ce in a operation table

If u be 23 u be fuked in tha first place, but atleast u aint a monster yet if ya t8ke hormiez


I am 31. Just started estradiol literally about two weeks ago after having played with herbal self medication for a while prior. You are *far* from too old.


I get that we all want to flip a switch and become a hottie, but it's about more than passing. It's your journey through your feelings, identity, and presentation, and most importantly, you do not have to stay on the gender binary or feel like it's not worth it if you don't pass. You can start and stop hormones whenever you want to, and dial in your hormonal balance to fit yourself. Starting HRT also doesn't mean you want or need surgery. Get a therapist and talk it out.

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So I recently bought a prostate massager (Aneros Helix Syn specifically) and I just tried it for the first time, and with great success! Wow. I ended up with an intensely pleasureable sensation all over my body. The peak lasted several minutes... I can't even describe it.

I feel like it could be even better with more practice though. I also did not ejaculate, which should definitely also be possible with more practice.

Do any of you girlies have any experience or advice you want to share?
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Great post!

> Relaxation is absolutely key here; when first learning just let your ass contract and relax on its own and focus on the feeling of pleasure generated by the stimulation on your p-spot.

I agree with you. This is basically what I did. You really have to just relax and let yourself get absorbed in the sensations of the moment. Getting impatient or trying to rush it is counterproductive. This can be difficult. Personally, I really have to been in a particular mood, and I have to feel like I have plenty of time, etc. I suppose this will get less important as I get more practice and get to know that part of my body a little better.

> Anyway, the first time I combined the aneros with hypno and canabis, it was a mind blowing, life changing event.

I have never done canabis, and don't really want to, but I've also had great success with hypno, although I have yet to combine it with the aneros. With hypno I feel the same kind of mindset is neccessary. Don't rush it, don't be stressed, just relax and be absorbed in the moment.


I love to use a medium butt plug for similar results, but usually end up getting so horny and impatient that I will rub my clitty.. have you acheived orgasms just using a plug?


has anyone left it over night?


Yup, everything this chick said. It's all about practice, ignoring your clitty, relaxing, and letting go to those super slutty thoughts.


Yes, twice, would not recommend. First, it was incredibly difficult to fall asleep, I think the first I used sleeping pills to do it and the second I was so exhausted I did naturally. Either way, it was a super fitful sleep, kept waking up every 40 min - 1.5 hours, never really hit true sleep all that much. And when waking up, body was still turned on, but mentally I was just not there at all, it was more of an inconvenience than anything. Plus the lube dried out overnight and it was not a comfortable experience getting it out. But yeah, there's really no benefits at all to leaving it in while you sleep versus just like an actual couple hour session with it.

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i have such a fantasy about coming out on facebook in such a grand and flamboyant way that i could never go back in the closet. not just my girly side, but coming out about my slutty side, my bimbo side... but i dont know the best way to do it! and its something i could only ever do once. any ideas? change my profile pic to something? post a status that says what? how could i get people to know that im not just joking and that im just expressing my true self?
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yeah something more gradual would make sense i guess. it just takes away some of the fun of the shock ;p maybe start modeling for some photo shoots or something, then could have some fun when i come out as trans... but not sure how to get ppl to stop taking me so seriously. maybe instagram or tumblr would be a better way to do this?


Get a snapchat or instagram account and then you can release it to a more contI AM A STUPID FUCKWIT AND I DESERVE TO DIE!ed group of people. Maybe keep it out of the eyes of those closet to you, although regardless the news will probably end up getting back to them.


well I came out as genderqueer. nothing bimbo yet. it'd be hard to do cuz ppl still take me so srsly :P guess it's gotta be something more gradual.


Post a pic of yourself here and we will let you know if people know already or not.


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Not op but I crave doing this daily
Kik is tallguysteve

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Haven't seen one of these in awhile, post a link and let's have fun.
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create a profile on the site. If you are a submissive, you can "submit" yourself with guidelines for what you are willing to do. Either through the site, or a link to your submission posted here, someone will give you a task to perform. You prove you followed instructions by responding to the one who gave you the order with a picture of you as told.





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Hi sissy girls! I am sissy admirer and long time lurker of this board. Today I come to you asking for help. I live in a student accommodation with lots of small apartments and one of my neighbor is, I suppose, a closet sissy. We became good friends these last months but some events made me think he is a girl that is too shy to blossom. Once I spotted some lube on the table next to his bed and when he caught me looking he turned red, then after I went to toilet a instant the lube disappeared. I supposed he was just embarrassed I caught his masturbation lube but we are all doing it and even joked on that together previously so I didn't understand why he was so uncomfortable.
Big thing happens last week-end when I came back in very early morning, around 4 am after a party and met him in the corridor. He was about to go in his room with a basket of laundry. I was also surprised why he should do laundry at that hour but being drunk I didn't look for further explanation. The weird thing is that he stopped at his door to greet me but as I came closer and started look at him and the basket he kinda tried to hide it, opened the door and disappeared in his room. Now i was drunk and tired but I would swear I saw some lingerie in his basket, at least some king of lace clothes.
Then I assume he is crossdressing which explains a lot of similar situation where he seemed uncomfortable.
My question is how can I be sure he is indeed a closet sissy girl. I don't want to be broad and ask him, I am afraid it would only nake things weird and make me lose him as friend. The thing is now I imagine him as a girl, I cannot stop thinking of seducing him and make him my girlfriend. So some advices for that would be also appreciated.

tl;dr Want to make sure my neighbor is a closet sissy and make him my girlfriend, what to do?
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No, you should keep your two inch microdick in your pants. What you should've done was confess your feelings for her (him) in a moment when she needed emotional support the most, instead of what you did where you just pussyfoot around and keep her at arms length until she looks hot and stops being unstable on her own. I don't know the current status of the two of you, but a woman would think that you're a faggot for not ASSERTING your support in her time of need. That look you two shared was literally her trying to convey to you that you should man the fuck up and give her real help instead of just orbiting around like beta dumb fuck



come on OP, give us some details


I'm going to assume a happy ending happened, then they didn't have a reason to browse the board. Thus not writing a proper ending, because it's hard to relay this info from the sunset.


OP here, so funny to see this thread on first page again, thaught it was dead on forgot long time ago.
Im sorry for >>31675 maybe you misunderstood me, my support for her at that time was fully asserted but first as a friend. Also I thaught it would be good that she discovered her body a little bit on her own before jumping into a relationship. Anyway turned out the patience was a good approach after all because we are now officially together for almost 8 months and enjoy our new relationship. Thanks for the support but as this thread was getting older I didnt feel like unburrying it over and over again. Hope the curiosity of the last two people remembering this is satisfied...


congrats on happy ending!

...now tell us some stories about you two?

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Someone made a chastity sizing guide post but I can't find it, anyone know where it is?






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Is this what you're referring to?

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So I just want to discuss my perdicament, and maybe some advice (or encouragement if you're really feeling evil). I'm 20 now, and I've always been a little girly. When I learned about sissies and feminization I was hooked, and I've been fantasizing about it ever since.

Well the other day I went on warpmymind and downloaded emg's cocksucking sissy maid, and now I feel like I'm teetering on the edge of the sissy cliff, it feels inescapable. I feel the most horny and amazing that I ever have, I even downloaded Sqidgy: panties. I know if I keep doing this for a few weeks I'll be gone forever. In short, all my fantasies are coming true.

I really want a family someday though, is there a way out of all this? If I know someday I can just quit and in a few months be semi-normal, I'm not going to resist anymore, it may already be pointless to try anyway. This is as much /hypno/ as it is /girly/, but I figured some of you ladies have been where I am.
(pic is not mine, but fuck i wish it was me)
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Pretty much yeah. The more I research gender, the less it seems like something is "wrong" with me and more like I just have qualities in my personality that I'm not really able to express. I could be wrong or convoluting this, but it seems to me that gender is meant to be something you unconsciously create by doing what you want. Instead, society shoehorns you into an oversimplified dichotomy based on your genitals.

On porn, I'm definitely taking a break. Researching all these gender and sex issues has highlighted the fact that an internet-molded sexuality can be dangerous.

Indiana, and not the good part. I could rant for hours on this shithole, but that's another discussion entirely.

On another note, thank you girls for listening to my babbling text walls and helping me figure this shit out. I know must of you just came to this board to whack it, but it helps to be able to type my feelings out and get a response other than "kill yourself, freak", which is what most of the people I know IRL would say


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You're welcome.I think people will understand how addicting and mind-bending porn is only after they've abused it.

I know I sound preachy but willpower and discipline are key.My life is so much better after cutting porn to a minimum.I don't know if I'll be a sissy forever but for right now I'm finally starting to figure things out.Willpower and discipline are key.But my God...whoever made trap hentai a thing is an evil genius.

Take care <3



It's not porn. It's dopamine.

You know all those stories about breaking sissies into sex addicts? Turns out if you constantly arouse someone sexually without cumming the brain releases a constantly a high level of dopamine which is supposed to incentive you to achieve a goal (reproduction) but without an orgasm, you never get a drop in dopamine, becoming frustrated instead.

Orgasming or not, things that rise dopamine are things you can become addicted to because your brain PHYSICALLY CHANGES ITSELF (neuroplasty) to pursuit behavior that rises dopamine MORE AND MORE. Your brain is a natural greedy slut!

I am a porn addict. I masturbate mindlessly clicking through porn, sometimes even without porn, sometimes I stop doing things and just masturbate. I've masturbated so much I stop caring about cumming and I just edge myself for hours and hours multiple times a week.

Right now I'm trying to stop because this is really destroying my life and whatever future I could have. I try to draw porn, I end up masturbating instead. I try to focus on something productive, my mind slips and when I come back to my senses my hand is in my pants. I'm making a conscious effort to stop but I unconsciously repeat the act.

I'm not a sissy. I'm a fat, ugly guy who loves trap and trap hentai. I'd never cross dress and post it on the internet, I'd never change genders, I've no intention of doing nothing like that, but right now I really, really want to lock myself in a chastity cage.

You know those stories that talk about that tingle? That itch you have? To have something pounded into your ass? I feel it on my dick. Right now as I type. It's scary, because after just a day not touching myself the unconscious wish has become conscious.

If I could leave an advice for you sissies who are serious about these things, is that your should to take chastity seriously. If too much sexual stimulation can change your brain, then too little can change it too.

Don't just lock your clitty and start craving anal orgasms instead. Take breaks from everything sexual. Keep it to a minimum. Let your sex drive build up instead of your sex dependency. And always use your rare sexual sessions to condition yPost too long. Click here to view the full text.


sound real, life advice. *bows*


Fair enough on society not seeing sex role expression in high resolution, but wait until you go against the counter-culture's sexual shibboleths. The disapproval will likely be career-ending, if not violent.

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What is it about black/brown cocks that get sissies in such a state? Why the huge lust for coloured meat? I thought this fetish was about being girly
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As a black sissy, I agree, I love BWC


Because it's what all the porn is about. I never once thought about the black thing before I discovered the porn, it was just the dicks, but lots of the porn has a race angle, so I just I AM A STUPID FUCKWIT AND I DESERVE TO DIE! with it because it's still hitting all the other buttons.

When it gets about breeding and race superiority and shit, I kind of tune out and look at the related content, because that shit's not my thing y'know.

Honestly this sissy thing is incredibly selfish as porn goes, the porn is about me really, it's about my interest in the dick, and my insecurity about all my weird kinks for dressing up and being submissive to dicks and shit, everything else is kind of objectified in this whole thing.


Because part of the "sissy" fantasy is turning your back on what you are. Most having it are white men....so the becoming girly is going against that...adding the race element is one step more. It doesn't matter what your feeling about racial matters are...we're in a time when the idea of interacial relationships just stopped being taboo or at least risque in the past 20 years...so it adds just a bit more kink. (Elements like adding step-fathers, or even real fathers and brothers, are the same way..just adding more to it).



Being dominated by an effeminate man isn't an uncommon fantasy, but you'll find it more as a fantasy that "macho men" seek out. It's pretty much the one step beyond from female pegging for them.


For me it also is a major turn-off.

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I swear there was a thread on this, but rereading through all the threads three times, I can't see it. I remember there was a discussion of using something to tighten the skin of the testicles and maybe even the penis itself.

I've been on HRT for about three years now, and while I have seen my testicles shrink considerably, I now have too much ball sack skin, even though my testicles don't actually hang down. Likewise, I've seen some shrinking with my penis, but not as much as I'd like.

I've considered different types of chastity, but I'm totally stealth (all my documents got switched over, and I got a name change years ago), and thus wear a lot of feminine cut pants to the office. I tuck rather effectively, obviously, and I rarely worry about spontaneous or unwanted erections. I have even devised a method for one piece swimsuits and have never had a second glance. I worry that the use of a chastity of device will make my tucking method useless and create a bulge, which given that I'm stealth, I kind of would very much like not to have to explain. I'd guess when I wear skirts, it'd be fine? But not slacks/pants.
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Found this, shrinking aspect could easily be bullshit but it feels pretty damn good regardless, so I'm giving it a try.


According to some odd sites and tumblrs, it may be possible to reduce your erect penis size by being rough or harsh with your penis during masturbation, like how this >>30057 image says to "grip it as hard as you can". Basically you're trying to beat up your penis so that you cause just a little bit of damage to it, but nothing that would be noticeable. Over time plaque will build up unside and inhibit your penises ability to become as large as it used to.
Not sure how safe it is because this is basically self induced Peyronie's Disease and it may cause your erections to become curved or even painful.


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Self induced impotence is an interesting one, I've heard a lot of things that have very little basis and even fewer results (hypnosis, drugs, etc) but if you're willing there are ways to induce it. I must preface this though, the effects may be permanent if done long enough, so you should be sure that this is what you actually want as it can be very hard to reverse once completed.

So the easiest method I've found is re-association, in that you change the way you masturbate so that you no longer get hard as quickly / easily. This method came about because there's a link between men who masturbate in the prone position and impotence; prone masturbation tends to be more focused on pressure as opposed to friction, the result can be impotence and/or decreased pleasure from penetrative sex. Many doctors would have you believe that the root cause is spongy tissue damage however I do not believe this is the cause as I have heard many testimonials over the years from men who masturbated prone who have managed to recover almost all normal functionality of their penis over time, as a result they are able to maintain erections and enjoy penetrative sex, this should not be possible if there was significant damage to the spongy tissue, therefore mental association must also play a significant role. This evidence is further backed up by men who cannot ejaculate / maintain an erection during penetrative sex because they've spent so long habitually masturbating in the same way.



So I did what any sane person would do, I decided to reverse the process and see if I could induce impotence in myself. There's two methods of masturbating I used to induce the effect, both of which focus around restricting the amount of blood that can flow into the penis, the first is very similar to prone masturbating in that you straddle a pillow and tuck your penis between yourself and the pillow and 'sit' on it thus restricting the amount of blood that can flow into it; the second method I stole from a transsexual website, it involves curling the penis downward and then rubbing it against itself using your middle and index fingers, this significantly reduces the amount of blood that can flow into the penis and is very effective at keeping it close to limp, this is my preferred method by far. After masturbating solely like this for a week I began to notice a reduction in how hard my penis would naturally get, no longer was is completely stiff but instead had a more spongy feel to it, I saw this effect continue after the second week as it became more spongy and by the third week I could not maintain as strong an erection as I could at the beginning, regardless of how hard I tried, it was at this point that I had lost roughly an inch off my erect length. At the fourth week I decided to stop the experiment as I had determined it successful as the most I could muster at this point was a spongy 3.5 inch chub, down from my initial hard 5.5 inch erection after masturbating with the above method once a day for four weeks. To reverse the process I simply went back to masturbating the way I always have and within a few weeks I had returned to my initial length and hardness, the main comment I would make about the reversal process is that initially it felt strange and foreign, almost like I had never done it before, but after a week this feeling passed and it felt normal again.




As to whether you can reverse this process if you go all the way and maintain it for a long period of time, I don't know, but it would be significantly harder to reverse than if you only went halfway like I did; based on evidence from men who masturbate prone though, I believe it would be possible to reverse it if given enough time and effort.

You can also induce the same effect with physical trauma to the spongy tissue, however I do not recommend this as it will be permanent without a doubt and can be painful both short and long term especially if you damage any nerves in the process.


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